theres a MLX, a MLX LM and a MLX LM Server mentioned. Is there a Bootstrap GitHub repo out there that can be used to directly, and quickly, set up an example of this, without the hassle of setting up, kind of like a bootstrap for "us mere mortals"? And what is the feasibility of using these on a M3 Pro with 18Gb of memory? - can these be bounced between a local M3 Pro and a Tailscale-linked M2 Pro with 36Gb memory? Do both need to be on macOS27 for it to work?
MLX,MLX LM, MLX LM Server -> Is there a bootstrap repo?
I would suggest heading over to https://github.com/ml-explore/mlx-swift-lm to see if that package has what you're looking for.
They may be able to help more over there for your MLX memory-related questions. :)